Abiola Olojo's Blog

Happy weekend friends. And welcome back. It’s election season in Nigeria, and I hope this election will bring positive change to our country. And I pray there won’t be violence or shedding of innocent blood. God bless Nigeria! Today, I want to share something about how to deal with the fear of being left alone . This is a feeling that happens to practically everyone of us. And I’ve been there. I can tell you it’s not a fun experience. It’s a moment when you feel nobody around - not even the people closest to you, and you feel like you have no one. Not that you don’t really have people to talk to. But the fact that you have no one who is really so close to your heart that you can talk with and share your feelings makes you feel left alone.  Maybe you have some expectations from some people. Or maybe you think someone should do certain things for you because of what you are going through at the moment, but they are not available. They are not there for you. And you wonder if they are rea

Hello friends! Welcome back. How are you doing? I hope this year is going well for you and your family. So much is going on, and I pray all will be well.  Today, I want to discuss something about what to do when you are confused. In life, we go through different situations and circumstances. And one of them is confusion.  Have you ever been in a situation that you don’t know exactly what to do? – Maybe you doubt what you should do. Maybe the end result will not favor you. Or maybe you are not just pleased with what is going on. Perhaps, you are in that situation right now and you don’t know what to do. Let me start by saying this is absolutely normal and it’s a situation that is part of life. It is a passing phase that will surely go away as no situation is permanent in life. Depending on what is causing the confusion, whether it is marital, financial, emotional, social, or even spiritual, you can start by finding it out, and relating it to why it’s making you confused.  For exam

Hello friends! Welcome back. Trust this past week has been great for you.  And thank God for His goodness and lovingkindness. Today, I want to share something about rebuilding trust in a relationship. We know trust is important in a relationship. And there is no how we can have a successful relationship without building trust.  But sometimes, things happen, and one way or the other, trust is broken. So, how do we rebuild it? If you've ever been in this situation, you would know it could sometimes get messy and may even be complicated if something is not done about it on time. So, in order to avoid this problem, here are ways I've found to rebuild trust in a relationship.  1. Communication:   I would say this is the first and the most important thing. When you have issue of trust with someone, you have to find an effective way to communicate with them.  No relationship thrives without communication! And the moment there is bridge in communication, there will be gradual los

2 mins read   Hello friends! How are you doing? And how is family? Hope everything is going well. Today, I want to discuss something about opportunities in our today’s world.  Like we always say, life itself is an opportunity. It gives us  opportunity to breathe, to wake up every morning, to take care of our family, to go to work, and to do things for ourselves and other people. Apart from that, the social media is another place where we see diverse of opportunities. Last week, we discussed about the mental effects social media has on us. Today, we’ll discuss the opportunities we have from social media. First, is the opportunity to meet people. This is a great opportunity. The fact that we don’t have to travel hundreds of kilometers before we can meet anyone around the world is a great opportunity.  These days, many people have met online, including lovers . And many have met their business partners, friends, coworkers and even audiences online. There are diverse opportunities assoc