Abiola Olojo's Blog

Happy new week my dear friend, it's amazing how far we have come this month, I find it important that we talk about something crucial today. Obedience is not always easy, in fact most times it comes with a cost. There are moments when doing the right thing means walking away from what feels good, what feels familiar, and even what feels safe. Following God is not just about words or intentions, it is about choices. And those choices will sometimes demand that you let go of comfort, habits, and even certain relationships that stand in the way of your purpose. I have come this far not by chance, but through obedience and discipline. There were days I had to deny myself, stay consistent, and choose what was right over what was easy. It did not always feel good in the moment, but it built something stronger in me. It shaped my direction, and it kept me grounded when distractions tried to pull me off course. Looking back, I regret the few times I insisted on doing things my own way. Tho...

  Happy new week my dear friend, and happy mother's day to all women all over the world. I'm so excited to write you today, taking about testimony. Sometimes we think testimonies belong only in church, behind a microphone, or in front of a congregation. But the truth is that a testimony is simply a story of what God has done in your life. The way He lifts you, restores you, and guides you through moments you thought would destroy you can become a light for someone else. Revelation 12:11 reminds us that people overcome by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony. That means your story carries power, even when it is shared quietly. There was a time in my life when I felt completely lost. I believed that redemption was far from me, and that some doors had closed forever. It is a lonely place to be, hopeless and filled with uncertainty. But something changed when I refused to give up. Little by little, God began to redirect my steps, reminding me that His plans are ...

  One of the greatest struggles many people face is the search for identity. People often look to society, friends, family, or achievements to define who they are. When identity is rooted in the opinions of others, it becomes unstable because human approval changes quickly. The Bible teaches that our true identity must come from God, the One who created us and understands our purpose. When God defines who we are, our value no longer depends on popularity, success, or the shifting opinions of people. A powerful example of this truth is found in the life of David. When the prophet Samuel came to anoint the next king of Israel in 1 Samuel, even David’s own father did not consider him important enough to be presented. His older brothers looked stronger and more qualified in the eyes of men. Yet God told Samuel, “Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” While others saw only a shepherd boy, God saw a future king. David’s identity did not come from his famil...

  Happy new month my dear friend, it’s the first day of the month, and I’m so excited to see how far we’ve come together. When no one is watching, that is when life is most honest. No applause, no pressure, no performance. Just you and your choices. The world may celebrate what is visible, but destiny is shaped in secret. The conversations you have with yourself, the habits you feed, the discipline you keep or ignore, they quietly build the person you are becoming. What we do in private does not stay private, it grows, and one day it speaks. Character is not formed on the stage, it is formed in solitude. The scripture says, “He that is faithful in little is faithful in much.” Before the spotlight ever finds a man, his consistency finds him first. David was tending sheep when no one cared, yet that hidden faithfulness prepared him for a throne. What you practice when no one is watching is rehearsing your future, whether you realize it or not. Many people manage their image, but few ...

Happy weekend, my dear friend. I'm so excited to write you today, especially on this topic. We all have that one goal we keep postponing. The one that stretches us, exposes us, demands discipline and faith. It is easier to chase small wins that make us look busy than to face the assignment that can truly change our lives. Many times, the goals we avoid are not impossible, they are just uncomfortable. And growth has never lived inside comfort. In the Bible, Jonah ran from Nineveh not because he lacked ability, but because he feared the weight of the assignment. Moses doubted himself at the burning bush, even after God called him. Gideon saw himself as the least in his family, yet he was chosen to lead. The pattern is clear, destiny often arrives dressed as fear. What we avoid is sometimes the very proof of our calling. We avoid certain goals because they demand sacrifice. They require us to let go of excuses, distractions, and sometimes even certain relationships. Jesus spoke about ...

Happy weekend my dear friend, it's the season of love, I wish you a happy valentines day. As the year continues to unfold, it is important that we do not lose focus, even in the face of uncertainties, we should never stop showing up. Consistence is the key to success, but that word always sound like a big word to a lot of people, but it is as simple as repeating what you did yesterday, showing up for dream you started. Nobody achieves results through giving up, every success story are told by people who kept showing up. Thomas Eddison showed up like a thousand time before achieving a light bulb. A lot of people tend to give up when they fail, but the only failure is the lack of understanding that failures are part of the build up to achieving success. When football tournaments are being played, teams that lose at a particular tournament do not stop playing at the other tournaments, instead they keep showing up for more till they make history. Life is meant to be lived intentionally...

Happy new month my dear friend, it's not just a new month, it's a month of reflection, we need to honestly review the journey so far. January came with plans, promises and strong words. We told ourselves this year would be different. We wrote goals and imagined a better version of our lives. Now the noise has settled, and the real work has started. The question is no longer what did you plan, but are you still on track. How did you live through January. Did your days reflect your resolutions, or did you slowly return to old habits. Have you taken even one step toward the life you want, or are you still living the same life you lived last year, just with new dates on the calendar. Progress is not noisy. It is found in small choices, waking up when it is hard, doing what needs to be done even when motivation is gone. Most times growth feels boring, lonely, and unseen, but it is still growth. This is not a moment for shame. It is a moment for honesty. If you are on track, keep goi...

 Happy weekend my dear friend, it’s the last day of January, and it’s the best time to reflect on how best we can fulfill purpose this year by paying attention to how disciplined we’ve been in the last Thirty one days. Discipline doesn’t announce itself. It works quietly, without noise or attention. Many people expect discipline to look dramatic or visible, but in reality, it happens in ordinary moments. It is found in daily choices, repeated actions, and silent commitments that no one else notices. Most disciplined efforts go unseen. No one applauds the early mornings, the routines kept on hard days, or the decisions to stay consistent when motivation fades. These moments rarely attract attention, yet they are the foundation of real growth and progress. We live in a time where visibility is often mistaken for success. People talk openly about their plans and intentions, but discipline focuses on execution, not explanation. It does not seek validation or recognition, it simply does...

  Healthy relationships are built on mutual care. They may not always be balanced in effort or resources, but they are guided by respect and consideration. At different times, one person may give more than the other, and that is part of life. What matters is the shared understanding that both people are committed to each other’s well being, not just to what they can receive. Some people grow used to receiving all their lives. Even when it is convenient for them to give, they find ways to remain on the receiving end. Over time, this habit shapes how others see them. The world is quick to label, and people begin to withdraw. Gradually, such individuals become isolated, not always by intention, but by reputation. When they truly need help, it becomes difficult for others to tell the difference. Their need is often mistaken for greed, because that is all that has been seen before. This pattern reflects what parasitic relationships often produce. Constant taking, without appreciation or...