Abiola Olojo's Blog

 Happy new month, my dear friend. There’s a story in the Bible about Abraham, a man who was asked to give up his only son, Isaac. He didn’t argue or question God, he simply obeyed. That was not just an act of faith, it was a deep picture of sacrifice. Sometimes what God asks of us isn’t what He truly wants to take, He only wants to see how far our hearts can go. The real sacrifice wasn’t Isaac, it was Abraham’s willingness to let go. Sacrifice is not always about what we lose, it’s about what we choose to give up for something greater. It is the silent decision to stay when walking away feels easier, to forgive when you have every right to be angry, to keep trying even when you’re tired. Many times, it’s not the big things we give up that define our sacrifice, it’s the little things we do that cost us comfort, pride, or convenience. Sometimes sacrifice is not even about giving, it’s about taking. Taking responsibility for others, taking the blame when it wasn’t your fault, taking a...

Happy new week my dear friend. I hope you are doing well and still keeping faith in the middle of life’s ups and downs. Today I want to remind you that holding on is not just a decision, it is a beautiful act of courage. In the Bible, there is a story of Job, a man who lost everything he had, yet refused to give up on God. He lost his wealth, his children, and even his health, but in all his pain, he said, “Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him.” Job held on when it made no sense to do so, and in the end, everything he lost was restored to him. His story is not just about suffering, it is about strength, patience, and faith that never gives up. Sometimes life will put you in situations that make you question everything you believe. You will pray and get silence, you will work hard and see no result, and you will help people who later turn their backs on you. It will hurt, but those moments are not meant to destroy you, they are meant to prepare you. When you hold on, you build a stre...

  Happy new week my dear friend, I'm so happy to write you again. Today's message is a very important one: persistence is one attribute every successful person can’t tell their story without. Every success story you hear is as a result of the power of persistence. I would have loved to tell my story, but I've mentioned it in numerous articles in the past, and I won’t want to bore you with it today. Instead, I’ll just mention a few names that we may be familiar with, to refresh our memories before delving into the message. Recently, I read some new stories about the famous boxer, Muhammad Ali. I learned about his transition from Cassius Clay to Muhammad Ali, how he faced and fought through racism, and most importantly, the many successes he recorded in the face of these challenges, none of which would have been possible without persistence. Also, the story of Thomas Edison comes to mind. His teacher referred to him as ADDLED (confused or mentally slow) and even sent a letter...

  Happy new week my dear friend, let's continue our conversation on "Endurance" and today it will be about how life tests our limits. Life often brings us face-to-face with challenges that seem bigger than our strength, heavier than our shoulders can carry, and longer than our patience can endure. These moments don’t come to destroy us but to define us. When life tests your limits, it’s not trying to expose your weakness, it’s trying to reveal your strength. The truth is, you never really know how strong you are until being strong becomes the only option you have left. Every person has a breaking point, but endurance is what separates those who rise from those who give up. The storms that shake us are also the ones that shape us. You might feel stretched, pressed, or cornered, but remember: gold only shines after it’s refined in fire. Likewise, your trials are the flames that purify your purpose. So when the world feels too heavy, remind yourself that pressure is proof of...

  Happy new month my dear friend, I'm so glad to write you again this month. I hope you were blessed through last month's messages, and I'm sure this month will be much better, as we'll be talking about ENDURANCE. Endurance is not just about surviving the storm; it’s about learning to dance in the rain until the clouds clear. It’s the inner strength that whispers “keep going” when everything around screams “give up.” Life, by design, tests our patience, faith, and willpower. But in every hardship lies a silent invitation to grow, to evolve, and to prove that we are more than our pain. Without endurance, dreams fade at the first sign of difficulty, and destinies die before they are born. Every great story, whether of heroes, nations, or simple everyday people is stitched together by endurance. The world remembers not those who never fell, but those who refused to stay down. Endurance is what turns failure into experience, loss into wisdom, and delay into destiny. It teac...

  Happy new week, my dear friend. Many years ago, two childhood friends started a small business together. In the beginning, everything was smooth, they laughed, dreamed, and shared ideas late into the night. But as challenges came, disagreements grew. One wanted to take risks, while the other preferred caution. At the brink of breaking apart, they decided to sit down, talk honestly, and find balance. Today, that business has not only grown, but their friendship has remained intact because they made a choice to sustain their relationship for the future, not just for the moment. Their friendship gave them the strength to learn from their past mistakes and the patience to work through differences. Over time, this decision turned their business into a multimillion venture, proving that lasting bonds can give rise to lasting success. Just like that story, our personal, professional, and even community relationships face storms. Conflict is inevitable, but what keeps a bond alive is the...

  Happy new week my dear friend, let's continue our conversation on an healthy relationship with people. Today, we'll talk about managing conflict and Differences. Conflict is a natural part of life because where there are people, there will always be differences in opinion, values, and approaches. These differences do not always have to divide us; in fact, when properly managed, they can strengthen relationships and even spark innovation. The problem is never the existence of conflict, but how we choose to respond to it. Unmanaged conflict leads to resentment and broken trust, while healthy conflict management creates understanding and growth. Most conflicts arise from common issues such as poor communication, clashing values, competition for resources, or simply wounded pride. At the root of every disagreement lies a story or perspective waiting to be heard. That is why the first step to managing conflict is listening, not listening to reply, but listening to understand. Many...

  Happy new week my dear friend, I hope September is treating you well. What do you know about relationship, and how healthy are your relationship. Healthy relationships are the foundation of a fulfilled life, they give meaning to our existence and provide us with the strength to navigate challenges. A healthy relationship is not defined by perfection, it is defined by the presence of love, trust, and respect, where each person feels valued and understood. It is in our connections that we find purpose, and it is through our bonds that we grow into better versions of ourselves. The beauty of a healthy relationship lies in communication, it is the bridge that connects two hearts and the path that resolves conflicts. When we speak with honesty and listen with empathy, we create an atmosphere where trust flourishes. Respect follows naturally when we acknowledge the uniqueness of others, allowing differences to become strengths rather than divisions. Every strong relationship thrives on...

  Happy new month my dear friend, this month we'll be talking about relationship with people. In life, no matter how successful, wealthy, or talented we may become, the true measure of our journey often lies in the quality of the relationships we build. Relationships are the bridges that connect us to opportunities, support systems, growth, and even healing. Every genuine relationship is rooted in trust, respect, and empathy. When we take time to listen, understand, and walk in another’s shoes, we create bonds that go beyond transactions. They become investments in people. These investments often yield rewards that money or status cannot buy: loyalty, encouragement, and a sense of belonging. The Scriptures give us powerful examples of this. Apostle Paul, once a persecutor, was feared and rejected after his transformation. Yet it was Barnabas who stood for him, even at great personal risk. That is the kind of friend we should all pray for, someone who does not abandon us when it is ...